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The Regulated Life

The Regulated Life

Hosted by: Erica Carter-Folk

Nervous system science meets raw, soulful truth. For adults ready to feel safe in their own skin. Welcome to The Regulated Life, hosted by transformational coach Erica Carter-Folk. This isn't your average self-help...

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Episode 17: The Biological Handshake: How to Stay Calm When They're Losing It | RAW Regulation

What do you do when they're the ones yelling? In this 5-minute RAW Regulation episode, I'm teaching you about the Biological Handshake—a nervous system tool that changes everything about how you show up in...
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Episode 16: Externalizing the System: How to Change Your Language to Dissolve Conflict | RAW Regulation

Ā  Welcome to Day 3 of RAW Regulation—where we Regulate. Allow. Witness. Today, we're focusing on one of the most powerful shifts you can make in any relationship: changing your language from "You vs. Me" to "Us...
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Episode 15: The Mirror Check | RAW Regulation

Welcome to RAW Regulation—where we get real, unfiltered, and embodied with nervous system tools you can use right now. RAW stands for Regulate. Allow. Witness. Ā  Have you ever walked into a conversation and within 60...
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Episode 14: The Myth of the Toxic Partner: Understanding Interpersonal Resonance

Ā  The Myth of the Toxic Partner: Understanding Interpersonal Resonance | The Regulated LifeĀ Ep. 14 Episode Description (300 words): Are you stuck in the same relationship cycle, constantly labeling your partner as...
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Episode 13: Biological Consent: The Prerequisite for Connection

Ā  Biological Consent: The Prerequisite for Connection The Regulated Life — Monday Deep Dive Episode Summary We’re taught that better communication fixes relationships.But what if the real issue isn’t what you’re...
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Episode12:RawRegulation-"What If You Let Yourself Cry?"

šŸŽ™ THE REGULATED LIFE – RAW REGULATION What If You Let Yourself Cry? You've been holding back tears for so long, you've forgotten what it feels like to just... let them fall. But here's the thing: What if crying isn't...
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Episode 11: Method Monday-"The Bathroom - Permission to Release What You've Been Holding"

šŸŽ™ THE REGULATED LIFE – METHOD MONDAY | EPISODE 3 The Bathroom - Permission to Release What You've Been Holding You know that feeling when you've been holding something in for so long—tears, anger, grief—and your body...
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Episode10:RAW Regulation: "Rest Without Guilt"

šŸŽ™ THE REGULATED LIFE – RAW REGULATION Rest Without Guilt You've been carrying guilt about rest for so long, you've forgotten what it feels like to just... stop. To pause without the nagging voice that says, "You...
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Episode9:RAW Regulation: "The Pause That Changes Everything"

šŸŽ™ THE REGULATED LIFE – RAW REGULATION The Pause That Changes Everything Most of your people-pleasing happens in the split second before you say yes. Someone asks for something. And before you even think, before you...
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Episode8: RAW Regulation: "Your Nervous System Doesn't Need Permission"

šŸŽ™ THE REGULATED LIFE – RAW REGULATION Ā  Your Nervous System Doesn't Need Permission Ā  You've been waiting for permission. Permission to rest. Permission to say no. Permission to take up space. Permission to prioritize...
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Episode7:RAW Regulation: "Saying No Is Self-Preservation"

šŸŽ™ THE REGULATED LIFE – RAW REGULATION Ā  Saying No Is Self-Preservation Ā  Every time you say yes when you mean no, you're not being kind. You're abandoning yourself. And your nervous system? It's keeping score. Ā  In...
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Episode6 :Method Monday - The Living Room Boundaries and the End of People Pleasing

šŸŽ™ THE REGULATED LIFE – METHOD MONDAY | EPISODE 6 Ā  The Living Room - Boundaries & The End of People-Pleasing You know that feeling when you're running around making sure everyone's comfortable—but you haven't even...
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