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Episode 47: RAW Regulation | The Wait 90 Seconds Protocol: Letting the Chemical Wave Pass
The urge to respond β right now, immediately, before the feeling passes β is one of the trauma loop's most reliable tricks. Today we talk about why that urgency isn't the truth, and we build the one skill that gives...
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Episode 46: RAW Regulation | The Check-In Tool: Are You Seeking a Fight to Feel Something?
Today's tool is one of the most honest ones in this series β and it requires a little courage to use it well. The Check-In is a three-question audit you can do in under two minutes, any time you feel the urge to stir...
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Episode 45: Regulated Life Deep Dive | Breaking the Addiction to Adrenaline
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If you've ever looked at your relationship history and wondered why you keep choosing the same dynamic with a different face β or why peace feels more threatening than conflict β this episode is the...
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Episode 44: RAW Regulation | Co-Regulation: Why the Best Thing You Can Do Tonight Is Stop Trying
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We're closing the week with the most quietly powerful tool in the entire suite β co-regulation. In today's Raw Regulation mini-episode, we break down the neuroscience of what happens when two nervous...
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Episode 43: RAW Regulation | The 5-Minute Buffer Zone: The Most Important Transition of Your Day
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Most people walk in the door from work still in the meeting they left forty-five minutes ago. Today's Raw Regulation mini-episode is about the Buffer Zone β a deliberate five-minute transition ritual...
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Episode 42: RAW Regulation | Why What You Carry In Your Face Is Blocking Your Intimacy
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Are your teeth touching right now? They probably shouldn't be. In today's Raw Regulation mini-episode, we're going deep on one of the most undertalked pieces of nervous system anatomy β the jaw-pelvis...
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Episode 41: RAW Regulation | The 30-Second Cortisol Brake You Already Own
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This Raw Regulation mini-episode is your Tuesday reset. In under seven minutes, you'll learn the neuroscience behind the physiological sigh β the fastest, most accessible tool your body already has...
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Episode 39: Regulated Life Deep Dive |The Biology of the Brake: Why Your Body Says No When Your Brain Won't Quit
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The Regulated Life | Season 1 Episode 39
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You love your partner. You want to feel connected. But when the moment comes, your body just... closes. And instead of desire, you feel guilt.
This week's...
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Episode 38 - RAW Regulation | The Spiral Reset Audio: Your 5-Minute Somatic First Aid Kit
All week we've been building the toolkit β the Voo Sound, the Butterfly Hug, the 5-4-3-2-1 Sensory Reset. Today Erica weaves them all together in a live demo of the Spiral Reset Audio β the free five-minute guided...
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Episode 37: RAW Regulation | The 5-4-3-2-1 Sensory Reset: Tell Your Immune System the Predator is Gone
Your immune system is waiting for one signal β and it doesn't require a partner, a prescription, or a resolved argument to receive it. In today's episode, Erica teaches the 5-4-3-2-1 Sensory Reset β a grounding...
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Episode 36: RAW Regulation | The Butterfly Hug: Interrupt the Spiral Before It Speaks
Β What if you could interrupt a Spiral β mid-argument, mid-anxiety, mid-that-3am-loop-in-your-own-head β in about 15 seconds? No partner needed. No equipment. Just your own two hands. Today Erica teaches the Butterfly...
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Episode 35: RAW Regulation | The Voo Sound: Your Vagus Nerve's Reset Button
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There's a reset button built into your body. It doesn't require a partner, a prescription, or even a lot of time. It takes about 60 seconds, it works whether you're mid-spiral or just winding down from a hard day,...
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