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Episode 39: Regulated Life Deep Dive |The Biology of the Brake: Why Your Body Says No When Your Brain Won't Quit
The Regulated Life | Season 1 Episode 39
EPISODE SUMMARY
You love your partner. You want to feel connected. But when the moment comes, your body just... closes. And instead of desire, you feel guilt.
This week's...
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Episode 38 - RAW Regulation | The Spiral Reset Audio: Your 5-Minute Somatic First Aid Kit
All week we've been building the toolkit — the Voo Sound, the Butterfly Hug, the 5-4-3-2-1 Sensory Reset. Today Erica weaves them all together in a live demo of the Spiral Reset Audio — the free five-minute guided...
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Episode 37: RAW Regulation | The 5-4-3-2-1 Sensory Reset: Tell Your Immune System the Predator is Gone
Your immune system is waiting for one signal — and it doesn't require a partner, a prescription, or a resolved argument to receive it. In today's episode, Erica teaches the 5-4-3-2-1 Sensory Reset — a grounding...
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Episode 36: RAW Regulation | The Butterfly Hug: Interrupt the Spiral Before It Speaks
What if you could interrupt a Spiral — mid-argument, mid-anxiety, mid-that-3am-loop-in-your-own-head — in about 15 seconds? No partner needed. No equipment. Just your own two hands. Today Erica teaches the Butterfly...
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Episode 35: RAW Regulation | The Voo Sound: Your Vagus Nerve's Reset Button
There's a reset button built into your body. It doesn't require a partner, a prescription, or even a lot of time. It takes about 60 seconds, it works whether you're mid-spiral or just winding down from a hard day,...
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Episode 34: Why 'I'm Fine' is Killing Your Immune System
What if your most important health intervention isn't in a bottle — it's in the nervous system quality of your closest relationships? In this episode, Erica unpacks the biology behind why chronic relational stress —...
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Episode 33: RAW Regulation | How to Use the Spiral Reset in Real Time
You've made it to Friday — and today I want to make sure the free tool I created for you actually gets used.
The Spiral Reset Audio is a free 5-minute guided breathwork and somatic anchoring experience designed...
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Episode 32: RAW Regulation | The Space Protocol
This one is for both of you.
When the Bunker needs space and the Seeker can't tolerate the silence — the loop explodes. Not because either of you is wrong. Because the space had no container. No agreement. No...
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Episode 31: RAW Regulation | The "I'm Still Here" Signal"
This one is for the Bunkers.
If you're the one who goes quiet during conflict — who shuts down, withdraws, or disappears into yourself — I need you to hear something you may have never been told: you are not cold....
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Episode 30: RAW Regulation | The Self-Soothe 60 Seconds
This one is for the Seekers.
If you're the one who pursues during conflict — who follows, who needs to resolve things now, who has been told you're too much or too intense — this episode is for you.
...
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Episode 29: The Regulated Life | Bunkers, Seekers, and the War for Safety
The more you reach for them, the further they disappear. The more they disappear, the harder you reach. You've probably been told you're too much. They've probably been called emotionally unavailable. And both of you...
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Episode 28: RAW Regulation | The Solo Reset: How to Come Down From a Red Zone Workday Before It Leaks Onto Your Evening
This one is for the person who doesn't have explosive conflicts.
You have something else.
The simmering. The residue. The commute home where you are still mentally in the meeting that ended three hours ago. The...
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